It’s great you are asking this question as it shows you are not ignoring how you are feeling. Instead of looking at what’s ‘normal’ it is important to give yourself space to reflect on the relationship and how you feel about the them. You mention that at first it was exciting so I am guessing this has changed and wondering if is it the sex you are no longer finding exciting or the relationship!
Maybe the question to ask first is do you still want to be in the relationship? What do you love about them, what is the purpose for your relationship, how do you feel when you are with them and how you do feel when you are not with them? If the answer is nothing or you don’t feel you love them or want to be with them anymore then maybe its time to end the relationship? If you feel there is still something there and you want to be with them but it’s just a case of not feeling excited anymore when having sex there are other things to explore/look at that may help.
Is it normal if I don’t want to have sex anymore in a relationship? At first it was exciting.
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