If he is my boyfriend, is it abuse if we have sex without me wanting it?

Absolutely! Consent is always needed. Why would your boyfriend, who is there to love and cherish you want to have sex with you when you don’t want it? If someone loves and cares about you they will never do something to you that you don’t want or that would hurt you.

Love cannot have an ounce of abuse, then it is not love.

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